Before a Tantric energy/massage session

Surround yourself with your focus to bring forth what you desire
a. Prior to an energy session ( massage/touch ) focus on what you wish to become. Read, imagine, put up sayings on the walls, photos, etc. Surround yourself with your becoming at all times, especially prior to activity for energy.
b. Following an energy ritual keep the focus on what you are becoming. Meditate, use a breathing technique, the Floating Ritual, or whatever you wish to gain what you want .
c. If you want to be a great shopper---go shopping. If you want to be wealthy---focus on wealth. similarly if you want to be in love, peace and harmony --- do that when energized and it will happen at the level of energy and dedication you have produced .
d. If you blow off the energy by talking or through other uncontrolled activity you will build ego. Not good for your ( anyones ) spirit .
e. Use good energy and good wish/will to help you and your surrounding .
f. It's silly to go into a meditation process looking for answers . Meditation is a way of cleaning your mind , and only with a clean mind , clean thoughts , positive energy and love will generate .
g. The healing activity is a ritual and works best when performed well. The more intense the touch , the more chemical change in the body and brain is created; the more your electromagnetic field is energized; the greater are your higher powers opened, the more insight you can gain.
h. Because the massage ( transferring energy through touch ) activity is a ritual and because the better it is done the stronger the ritual, and because the more intense the energy produced, the more energy available to grow with. The more the better. The more often the better. Keep a second attention on your goal and your first attention on the ritual.
i. You are NOT the only source of energy available to you. The energy field of the earth is stronger than your energy for example. Other people can enhance your energy, helping you build glorious and intense energy. Other people can also drain you so be careful.
j. Working with trusted ( doesn't mean old ) partner is required to practice energy exchange and healing . Remember trust is again in your mind/soul . Learn to trust(love) people , and also learn not be damaged by people who break your trust . Remember , only a loving soul ( both to the good and bad souls ) can create loving energy .
k. Chemical drugs are drugs and your body creates it's own drugs( chemical ) internally. We can control the amount of chemistry change through our activity, attitude . Intense energy activity brings intense body chemistry changes . Handle it with care.
l. Practice, practice, practice.