Tantra and Sex.... for whom !?!

The strength of the potential for health, energy, happiness, enlightenment, etc., lies in the quality and strength of the polarity involved in the sexual acts. So far as the quality of polarity, Tantric Scriptures specifically exclude the voluptuary, the drunkard, the lewd person, the glutton, the lecher, those who have not risen above shame, blame, guilt, anger, and other damaging impurities. Certainly sex can be used for harm. For each rose there are many thorns, for each beauty there is an opposite. Just as it is true that sex can be dirty, filthy, degrading, etc., so is sex beautiful, enlightening, cleansing, envigorating, etc., and the awareness that this can be should bring hope to even those who have never experienced the beautiful side of their (and other’s) sexual nature .
Tantra specifically teaches purity as the major force for good and as the specific quality required for entering into the many aspects of the sexual activity God has bestowed on our human physical and spiritual bodies. Tantra also encourages a participant in sexual activity to use that energy produced to focus on higher spiritual values and enlightenment. In this is purity. Sex only degrades the degraded, only harms the harmful, is only evil to the evil, etc., and is a joy to the joyful, healthful to the healthy, illuminating to those who seek illumination. As in everything else, as ye seek, so shall ye find. If sex and sexual connection between two positive human is a sin or agaist social norms ! What a strange thing , through this “unclean,” “dirty,” “filthy,” and so on method , are our beautiful children are conceived !! How can a process that bring life to the earth be sin ! How can a process that keep the existance of not just human , but all the other species , be practised less and less ( we keep population control in mind , but not States control over our body n soul ) !!?
If you were a devoted student of tantric philosophy, you would go through an extensive program of physical, mental and sexual exercises to heighten your sensory awareness. Through slow and thoughtful practice you would learn to comfortably extend the time of connecting with other body n soul . In this way you would train yourself to be aware of not only your own feelings but also those of your partner. The spiritual part of tantra is to use your sexual energy to merge ecstatically with your partner and through him or her to become one with the cosmos or God.